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Showing posts with label The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Show all posts
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Sunday, September 2, 2012
So Very Pertinent Still Today
This article/talk http://www.lds.org/general-conference/print/1975/10/for-the-time-will-come-when-they-will-not-endure-sound-doctrine?lang=eng is so very pertinent today, yet it is a little bit older than me. That's 36 years, yall!
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Live Local?
If you live local to this article http://www.palmcoastobserver.com/news/palm-coast/Neighborhood/081520125003/The-100-dresses-project , or you want to send a dress by snail mail (Postal Service), I'm sure they would be overjoyed to accept your donation. What a great service project!!!
Saturday, June 30, 2012
A Quote From Elder Holland
“Who is it that whispers so subtly in our ear that a
gift given to another somehow diminishes the blessings we have received? Who
makes us feel that if God is smiling on another, then He surely must somehow be
frowning on us? You and I both know who does this—it is the father of all lies..
I am convinced the commandment not to covet is meant to keep us from hurting
ourselves… Brothers and sisters, I testify that no one of us is less treasured
or cherished of God than another. I testify that He loves each of
us—insecurities, anxieties, self-image, and all. He doesn’t measure our talents
or our looks; He doesn’t measure our professions or our possessions. He cheers
on every runner, calling out that the race is against sin, not against each
other. I know that if we will be faithful, there is a perfectly tailored robe of
righteousness ready and waiting for everyone, ‘robes … made … white in the blood
of the Lamb.’ May we encourage each other in our effort to win that prize is my
earnest prayer..”
Friday, June 29, 2012
More on Doctrines (some deep-ish) of My Church
Susanne asked some really GREAT questions on a blog belonging to a friendly aquaintance of mine. I loved the questions so much, especially after the challenge and joy of responding to some questions my friendly aquaintance posed as queries others might have (on her blog), that I decided I just needed to answer Susanne! I hope you don't mind, Suzanne, assuming you ever read them. ^_^
Your questions are in italics, unaltered. I'm totally happy with any comments or questions you may have, too.
"Aren’t we good enough to be in heaven without having to adopt extra gods?"
I'm not really sure why you think we have to adopt extra gods. Certainly Mormons believe in only God the Father, Jesus Christ and The Holy Ghost which three constitute our One God.
"or being sealed forever?"
Being sealed to one's spouse for eternity is not a matter of being good enough. The sealing ordinance performs the unification of two into one for longer than life. Marriage under man's law makes the union for life, sealing carries it through death. So, the sealing ordinance has really nothing to do with being "good enough," except that both parts of the union must be striving to be "good enough" to be exhalted.
"or having to accept Joseph Smith as a prophet?"
I would ask a question in return: Aren't we good enough to not need Moses as a prophet? Or, weren't the Israelites good enough that they didn't need Moses for a prophet. I think the answer is both yes and no. Yes, certainly they could return to Father's presence without Moses. But no because they could not escape the captivity of their generation. And for generations afterward (and Jews still today) who practiced the ordinances of the Mosaic Law. These are performances that are meant to sanctify and bring those who do them unto the Lord. So too, for the contemporaries of Joseph Smith through the generations to the present day.
"or having to do good works?"
So, would you refute the Bible? Faith without works is dead, it says in the Holy book. But you would argue that we are 'good enough' without good works to get into Heaven. 1+1=2 whether we like it that way or not. :)
"What if we simply want to accept Jesus’ work on the cross as the only thing necessary for salvation and realize our good works stem from abiding in Him not as a means to earn a higher level of heaven?"
Such a desire is perfection. Our good works DO stem from abiding in Him. They do not "earn" us a higher degree of heaven. By abiding in Him (doing good works), we are sanctified and purified and perfected (not made perfect in this life, but moved ever nearer to perfection). This sanctification and purification and movement toward perfection enable us to endure a potential eternity nearer His presence. No unclean thing can enter His presence, so surely no unclean thing can abide His presence for eternity. No one of us will ever attain perfection in this life. So we must rely upon Grace. However, let's say there are two people who profess Jesus as their Savior on the same day. Then one of them spends the rest of life abiding in Christ, performing good works under inspiration of the Holy Ghost, and loves to and years to abide in His presence always, then dies. While the other falls into lustfull living, doing all manner of evil in the sight of the Lord, and lives in a manner so that this person feels GREAT discomfort at the thought of being among believers and cannot even contemplate entering God's presence for the shame of the life this person led.... Would it be justice for our Father in Heaven to force this second person into the same place as the first? Would it be justice in God to force the first to endure eternity in the environs that second would feel comfortable in? This is where the Degrees of Glory come in, you see.
"'Without me you can do nothing,' Jesus tells us. He tells us to abide in Him and He would bring forth good fruit in us. Why do we need to accept LDS doctrines?"
We believe... I believe that the Doctrines of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints are the fully restored Doctrines Jesus Christ taught when He was in His ministry on earth among the Jews. We/I believe many plain and simple truths were lost through the Great Apostacy, which Jesus and Paul (I think) prophesied.
"I’m curious why the need for LDS missionaries – is this not a waste of time and resources that could be used to feed the poor or fight sex traffickers or provide clean water or mosquito nets that would save thousands of lives?"
We believe it is the duty of every person who learns truth to share it with their spirit siblings. We believe we have the most complete truth about the nature of God and His Way for His Children, and desire to share these truths. Missionaries are full-time sharers of these truths.
"Maybe you believe you are encouraging people to marry and be sealed for all time and that idea is worth going into all the world and preaching to every creature? Is this why Mormons are all over the world?"
Missionaries teach about those things, it is true. And yes, this is part of the message we are striving to share all over the world. But it is only a part. We also teach about the true nature of God, the truth of our Father speaking to and visiting His lost sheep, and more.
"My mom’s family has several missionaries so I try to understand the missionary mindset, but it makes more sense to me when I feel like they want to tell people about Jesus so HE can save them from hell. But if there were no hell (by the way, I’d love for y’all to be right about this!! truly!) then I wouldn’t bother. If most everyone is OK just as they are, why leave family, go to another land and tell people their faith isn’t good enough (which can be insulting if you think about it)? Maybe “going to hell” is a bad reason to share your faith and yours is better? But what is it? You have to be LDS in order to have the BEST heaven? I’d join LDS just because their hell is so small, but what if you are wrong about that and hell is bigger than we think?"
We do teach that Jesus Christ saves us from evil and the result of sin. If we sin with knowledge, we are exiled from God's presence. As "nice" as the Tilestial (lowest degree of heaven) is, it's NOT eternity in God's presence. And I'm pretty sure there is reference in the Bible to the idea that living out of God's presence is no treat, regardless of how nice it is. The only way to attain eternity in God's presence is in and through and by Jesus Christ. For, as you know, He is the way, the truth and the light. And only in and through Him can we be saved.
Being able to attain the Celestial Kingdom (the BEST heaven, as you put it) is determined more by sanctification and whether all of the necessary ordinances to obtain the presence of God have been performed. Since The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is the physical manifestation of the RESTORED fullness of Christ's Gospel, we have the most truth and part of that truth is the ordinances necessary to obtain the Father's presence.
Whether we (Mormons) are right or wrong about the number of folks who may be exiled to outerdarkness (hell) or not should really not be a concern for any good Christian. For if we, Christians, are leading lives Led of the Lord we don't have to worry about hell... and focusing our attention there avails us less ability to focus where we should be focused. If we only do good to avoid hell, then we're running away from something, rather than focusing on Christ and being sanctified.
"I always heard Lucifer wanted to be like God and this was what caused his fall. You have to understand why it’s difficult for someone like me to accept the notion that Mormons *want to be like God.* Or be gods…how is that different from Lucifer?"
This is different from the devil because we Mormons do not desire to take our Father's Glory. We strive and work and live and love (just as all Christians do) to Glorify our Father. The deceiver wanted to perform a form of the saving work Jesus Christ actually did, but instead of doing it the Lord's way (which Christ did do), the devil wanted to do it his own way AND obtain God's Glory for his own. Jesus Christ was our exemplar when He said by His life and death, "Thy Will be done, not mine." I believe that by becoming a god with my eternal mate I will always be a child of my Heavenly Father's and that any Glory I may attain will also be His... so, in the way that my earthly parents are always older than me, God the Father will always be "ahead" of me.
"Or maybe you believe Lucifer isn’t so bad and we have wrongly pegged him when he, too, will really be in that big wonderful heaven. Do you?"
Lucifer is the pre-existence name of him who is now known as the devil. He is the father of lies. He is the evil one. He is the great deceiver. He is miserable and desires all of us to be miserable as he. We, Mormons, know these truths, as do you.
"By the way, do you believe Jesus and Paul were married?"
No way. I've heard a lot of out-there stuff, but that's the most out-there to date.
"Also, how do gay couples figure into Mormon theology?"
Gay marriage, in our belief, is not recognized by God. He did not organize or intend for a homosexual couple to copulate, much less consider themselves 'married.'
"And divorced people?"
I'm not completely sure. I believe (that we believe) there will be a great deal of Grace for those divorced during our day. Perhaps an even greater measure of Grace, given the world in which we live. I definitely believe (and Mormons do) that divorce is not the goal; whether you are married by man or in the temple. We DO believe the Bible to be the Word of God, so long as it is translated correctly. So, Paul had a few words about marriage and the use of it. I know, at one point, he said that if one were married to an unbeliever the believer should never leave, but if the unbelieving spouse left, to let them go. Also, I believe he also said that it was important that the believer NOT leave because s/he never could tell if they would be the way and means by which their spouse would be saved.
"And couples unable to conceive?"
They are able to enter the Celestial Kingdom if all else is in accordance to God's Commands and Expectations. He is the ultimate judge of all, anyway!
"or couples like me and my husband who never wanted children?"
Living childless for selfish reasons is, I believe, not pleasing to the Lord (given His first Commandment in the Garden) and could potentially cause those who make such a choice to suffer more than necessary if they had kept that Commandment. If they were able, and chose NOT to keep the Commandment (just like any Commanment)... well, there is a blessing and punishment predicated on all obedience or disobedience (respectively).
NOTE:
I did strive to declare what I believe, but I do believe what I believe is according to correct Doctrines of my Church. :)
Your questions are in italics, unaltered. I'm totally happy with any comments or questions you may have, too.
"Aren’t we good enough to be in heaven without having to adopt extra gods?"
I'm not really sure why you think we have to adopt extra gods. Certainly Mormons believe in only God the Father, Jesus Christ and The Holy Ghost which three constitute our One God.
"or being sealed forever?"
Being sealed to one's spouse for eternity is not a matter of being good enough. The sealing ordinance performs the unification of two into one for longer than life. Marriage under man's law makes the union for life, sealing carries it through death. So, the sealing ordinance has really nothing to do with being "good enough," except that both parts of the union must be striving to be "good enough" to be exhalted.
"or having to accept Joseph Smith as a prophet?"
I would ask a question in return: Aren't we good enough to not need Moses as a prophet? Or, weren't the Israelites good enough that they didn't need Moses for a prophet. I think the answer is both yes and no. Yes, certainly they could return to Father's presence without Moses. But no because they could not escape the captivity of their generation. And for generations afterward (and Jews still today) who practiced the ordinances of the Mosaic Law. These are performances that are meant to sanctify and bring those who do them unto the Lord. So too, for the contemporaries of Joseph Smith through the generations to the present day.
"or having to do good works?"
So, would you refute the Bible? Faith without works is dead, it says in the Holy book. But you would argue that we are 'good enough' without good works to get into Heaven. 1+1=2 whether we like it that way or not. :)
"What if we simply want to accept Jesus’ work on the cross as the only thing necessary for salvation and realize our good works stem from abiding in Him not as a means to earn a higher level of heaven?"
Such a desire is perfection. Our good works DO stem from abiding in Him. They do not "earn" us a higher degree of heaven. By abiding in Him (doing good works), we are sanctified and purified and perfected (not made perfect in this life, but moved ever nearer to perfection). This sanctification and purification and movement toward perfection enable us to endure a potential eternity nearer His presence. No unclean thing can enter His presence, so surely no unclean thing can abide His presence for eternity. No one of us will ever attain perfection in this life. So we must rely upon Grace. However, let's say there are two people who profess Jesus as their Savior on the same day. Then one of them spends the rest of life abiding in Christ, performing good works under inspiration of the Holy Ghost, and loves to and years to abide in His presence always, then dies. While the other falls into lustfull living, doing all manner of evil in the sight of the Lord, and lives in a manner so that this person feels GREAT discomfort at the thought of being among believers and cannot even contemplate entering God's presence for the shame of the life this person led.... Would it be justice for our Father in Heaven to force this second person into the same place as the first? Would it be justice in God to force the first to endure eternity in the environs that second would feel comfortable in? This is where the Degrees of Glory come in, you see.
"'Without me you can do nothing,' Jesus tells us. He tells us to abide in Him and He would bring forth good fruit in us. Why do we need to accept LDS doctrines?"
We believe... I believe that the Doctrines of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints are the fully restored Doctrines Jesus Christ taught when He was in His ministry on earth among the Jews. We/I believe many plain and simple truths were lost through the Great Apostacy, which Jesus and Paul (I think) prophesied.
"I’m curious why the need for LDS missionaries – is this not a waste of time and resources that could be used to feed the poor or fight sex traffickers or provide clean water or mosquito nets that would save thousands of lives?"
We believe it is the duty of every person who learns truth to share it with their spirit siblings. We believe we have the most complete truth about the nature of God and His Way for His Children, and desire to share these truths. Missionaries are full-time sharers of these truths.
"Maybe you believe you are encouraging people to marry and be sealed for all time and that idea is worth going into all the world and preaching to every creature? Is this why Mormons are all over the world?"
Missionaries teach about those things, it is true. And yes, this is part of the message we are striving to share all over the world. But it is only a part. We also teach about the true nature of God, the truth of our Father speaking to and visiting His lost sheep, and more.
"My mom’s family has several missionaries so I try to understand the missionary mindset, but it makes more sense to me when I feel like they want to tell people about Jesus so HE can save them from hell. But if there were no hell (by the way, I’d love for y’all to be right about this!! truly!) then I wouldn’t bother. If most everyone is OK just as they are, why leave family, go to another land and tell people their faith isn’t good enough (which can be insulting if you think about it)? Maybe “going to hell” is a bad reason to share your faith and yours is better? But what is it? You have to be LDS in order to have the BEST heaven? I’d join LDS just because their hell is so small, but what if you are wrong about that and hell is bigger than we think?"
We do teach that Jesus Christ saves us from evil and the result of sin. If we sin with knowledge, we are exiled from God's presence. As "nice" as the Tilestial (lowest degree of heaven) is, it's NOT eternity in God's presence. And I'm pretty sure there is reference in the Bible to the idea that living out of God's presence is no treat, regardless of how nice it is. The only way to attain eternity in God's presence is in and through and by Jesus Christ. For, as you know, He is the way, the truth and the light. And only in and through Him can we be saved.
Being able to attain the Celestial Kingdom (the BEST heaven, as you put it) is determined more by sanctification and whether all of the necessary ordinances to obtain the presence of God have been performed. Since The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is the physical manifestation of the RESTORED fullness of Christ's Gospel, we have the most truth and part of that truth is the ordinances necessary to obtain the Father's presence.
Whether we (Mormons) are right or wrong about the number of folks who may be exiled to outerdarkness (hell) or not should really not be a concern for any good Christian. For if we, Christians, are leading lives Led of the Lord we don't have to worry about hell... and focusing our attention there avails us less ability to focus where we should be focused. If we only do good to avoid hell, then we're running away from something, rather than focusing on Christ and being sanctified.
"I always heard Lucifer wanted to be like God and this was what caused his fall. You have to understand why it’s difficult for someone like me to accept the notion that Mormons *want to be like God.* Or be gods…how is that different from Lucifer?"
This is different from the devil because we Mormons do not desire to take our Father's Glory. We strive and work and live and love (just as all Christians do) to Glorify our Father. The deceiver wanted to perform a form of the saving work Jesus Christ actually did, but instead of doing it the Lord's way (which Christ did do), the devil wanted to do it his own way AND obtain God's Glory for his own. Jesus Christ was our exemplar when He said by His life and death, "Thy Will be done, not mine." I believe that by becoming a god with my eternal mate I will always be a child of my Heavenly Father's and that any Glory I may attain will also be His... so, in the way that my earthly parents are always older than me, God the Father will always be "ahead" of me.
"Or maybe you believe Lucifer isn’t so bad and we have wrongly pegged him when he, too, will really be in that big wonderful heaven. Do you?"
Lucifer is the pre-existence name of him who is now known as the devil. He is the father of lies. He is the evil one. He is the great deceiver. He is miserable and desires all of us to be miserable as he. We, Mormons, know these truths, as do you.
"By the way, do you believe Jesus and Paul were married?"
No way. I've heard a lot of out-there stuff, but that's the most out-there to date.
"Also, how do gay couples figure into Mormon theology?"
Gay marriage, in our belief, is not recognized by God. He did not organize or intend for a homosexual couple to copulate, much less consider themselves 'married.'
"And divorced people?"
I'm not completely sure. I believe (that we believe) there will be a great deal of Grace for those divorced during our day. Perhaps an even greater measure of Grace, given the world in which we live. I definitely believe (and Mormons do) that divorce is not the goal; whether you are married by man or in the temple. We DO believe the Bible to be the Word of God, so long as it is translated correctly. So, Paul had a few words about marriage and the use of it. I know, at one point, he said that if one were married to an unbeliever the believer should never leave, but if the unbelieving spouse left, to let them go. Also, I believe he also said that it was important that the believer NOT leave because s/he never could tell if they would be the way and means by which their spouse would be saved.
"And couples unable to conceive?"
They are able to enter the Celestial Kingdom if all else is in accordance to God's Commands and Expectations. He is the ultimate judge of all, anyway!
"or couples like me and my husband who never wanted children?"
Living childless for selfish reasons is, I believe, not pleasing to the Lord (given His first Commandment in the Garden) and could potentially cause those who make such a choice to suffer more than necessary if they had kept that Commandment. If they were able, and chose NOT to keep the Commandment (just like any Commanment)... well, there is a blessing and punishment predicated on all obedience or disobedience (respectively).
NOTE:
I did strive to declare what I believe, but I do believe what I believe is according to correct Doctrines of my Church. :)
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Have You Met One?
My visiting teachers came to visit me today. I enjoy having them and definitely felt the desire to visit with them by myself this time. I often welcome my VTers to come when Jess is around because I'm happy for him to see my sisters in the Gospel love me. But I wanted the attention all for myself this time. I've been feeling a little needy... okay, a LOT needy lately. Do you think it's all the time online with no actual person with whom to share my words? You may have something there! Yes, by-jove, I think you hit the nail on the head! ;)
Well, it was a lovely visit - as usual. :) During the course of conversation Leslie made comments about Jessie and what a wonderful husband he is. She was specifically impressed with his attendance at church (in general), but specifically spoke about seeing him on Saturday morning to clean the building, which, as she said it, 99% of the MEMBERS won't or don't do ("including me, as yet").
Jess mentioned at least a month ago that he wanted us to get back (actually he wanted to go back and wanted me to stay home with the girls because he doesn't like that I'm having so much pain already) to clean the building. But now that we're getting assistance from the church for our groceries, we both feel that we HAVE to contribute to building maintenance. We were not asked to do it as part and parcel of the aid, but we would rather do something than do nothing. I guess we wouldn't be doing nothing anyway, technically, since I have a calling and Jess teaches the Food Storage Food Preparation classes... but still!
The main comment that Leslie made in all of her gushing, which I find so striking was, "He's just a dry Mormon is all!" Now, probably you've heard that term before, if you're familiar with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. But the funny thing about WHAT she said was: I'd had this very specific thought myself only within the last couple of weeks! Really, it was since the meeting with our Bishop.
I think I mentioned that Bishop told Jess there were many requests for him, Bishop, to call Jess to this calling or that calling, but that he, Bishop, couldn't give Jess a calling until Jess was a member. I think Jess was disappointed about that... but not enough to seriously consider being dunked! heeheehee ^_^
Anyway... I'd specifically thought to myself (and only in my own head, for sure!) that Jess really was a good DRY member... except for the smoking bit... and occasional brown tea drinking. Honestly, he's quite a bit "better" (if that's possible, really) than lots of member guys because he's completely supportive of my Membership. I mean, how many member guys would take over any part of their wife's calling for her at any given time? And how many member guys put up a stink about their wives attending the temple? I know I've heard of none and plenty, respectively! (If you are Evelyn, Heidi, Barb, or Caroline... yall have some EXCEPTIONAL GUYS!!! I know they totally would be on the positive side of both of those questions about member guys.)
Jess takes over my calling every time I miss church and he attends. Thus far I think we've ALL missed church a total of 2 times in the last 2 years... but I've missed at least 4 times since this pregnancy (and only one of them Jess missed as well). So, he's taken care of the folders for my calling at least 3 times without ANY reminders from me. And as of this last Sunday Jess took over my folder duties (as Primary secretary, responsible for putting folders out, picking them up, and knocking on the doors). I actually asked him to plan to take over the previous Sunday because my fatigue and hips have gotten so bad. When I'm too tired at any given time, my hips cause my excruciating pain. And, lately, I'm always too tired at church because my sleep schedule is NOT in line with what is "normal," for sure! Yall already know we attend the temple monthly and not only does Jess watch our girls, but he comes along with me so that we can spend the time there and back as a family! I also feel very desirous of being close to my family as a whole unit when I emerge from the temple. And I know Jess has felt something different about me when I come out of the temple. And I think it's a difference he likes and wants to enjoy. I could be reading too much in... but I think not. Anyway... WHAT guy does that EVERY month!?!?!?!
Anyway... Leslie is right. Just too funny that she mentioned it today... to mirror my silent thought! ^_^
HIS Blog
Jess is just SO tickled with himself and his blog! He has SUCH fun with the linking. If you pop over there and click on the very first one for Tuesday, you won't find much, but he's going to fix it soon. I strongly encourage you to check out his links. By so doing you will have a good look into the WEIRD and eclectic sense of humor that is JESSIE'S BLOG!
If any of you are seeking a link to get you to a place that will help you find recipes for random ingredients... Jess HAS it! The last link on his post (Tuesday) is WAY cool. He was REALLY impressed with the wide array of recipes the site provides after inputting some pretty basic ingredients (like pot roast style ingredients).
MY OTHER Blog
And, thus far, thanks to my lovely and loyal visitors... I've now earned a marvelous $0.02 cents!!!! Can you hear me falling to the floor in fits of giggles!?? Yep, I did! Okay, I actually did NOT, but I wanted to! ^_^ I don't know how to get lots of people to check it out. I mean, technically I know how, but I don't know how to get people to give me "linky love." Did you KNOW there WAS such a term?? Well, there is. And basically it's one of the only ways to get ranked on Google... and the higher your rank the more easily others will find you... thus increasing traffic. *sigh* So much to figure out... and absolutely NO time to do it. MAN, it's going to take a VERY long while to get up to the minimum of $50 for a payout with that gig!!! ;)
Well, it was a lovely visit - as usual. :) During the course of conversation Leslie made comments about Jessie and what a wonderful husband he is. She was specifically impressed with his attendance at church (in general), but specifically spoke about seeing him on Saturday morning to clean the building, which, as she said it, 99% of the MEMBERS won't or don't do ("including me, as yet").
Jess mentioned at least a month ago that he wanted us to get back (actually he wanted to go back and wanted me to stay home with the girls because he doesn't like that I'm having so much pain already) to clean the building. But now that we're getting assistance from the church for our groceries, we both feel that we HAVE to contribute to building maintenance. We were not asked to do it as part and parcel of the aid, but we would rather do something than do nothing. I guess we wouldn't be doing nothing anyway, technically, since I have a calling and Jess teaches the Food Storage Food Preparation classes... but still!
The main comment that Leslie made in all of her gushing, which I find so striking was, "He's just a dry Mormon is all!" Now, probably you've heard that term before, if you're familiar with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. But the funny thing about WHAT she said was: I'd had this very specific thought myself only within the last couple of weeks! Really, it was since the meeting with our Bishop.
I think I mentioned that Bishop told Jess there were many requests for him, Bishop, to call Jess to this calling or that calling, but that he, Bishop, couldn't give Jess a calling until Jess was a member. I think Jess was disappointed about that... but not enough to seriously consider being dunked! heeheehee ^_^
Anyway... I'd specifically thought to myself (and only in my own head, for sure!) that Jess really was a good DRY member... except for the smoking bit... and occasional brown tea drinking. Honestly, he's quite a bit "better" (if that's possible, really) than lots of member guys because he's completely supportive of my Membership. I mean, how many member guys would take over any part of their wife's calling for her at any given time? And how many member guys put up a stink about their wives attending the temple? I know I've heard of none and plenty, respectively! (If you are Evelyn, Heidi, Barb, or Caroline... yall have some EXCEPTIONAL GUYS!!! I know they totally would be on the positive side of both of those questions about member guys.)
Jess takes over my calling every time I miss church and he attends. Thus far I think we've ALL missed church a total of 2 times in the last 2 years... but I've missed at least 4 times since this pregnancy (and only one of them Jess missed as well). So, he's taken care of the folders for my calling at least 3 times without ANY reminders from me. And as of this last Sunday Jess took over my folder duties (as Primary secretary, responsible for putting folders out, picking them up, and knocking on the doors). I actually asked him to plan to take over the previous Sunday because my fatigue and hips have gotten so bad. When I'm too tired at any given time, my hips cause my excruciating pain. And, lately, I'm always too tired at church because my sleep schedule is NOT in line with what is "normal," for sure! Yall already know we attend the temple monthly and not only does Jess watch our girls, but he comes along with me so that we can spend the time there and back as a family! I also feel very desirous of being close to my family as a whole unit when I emerge from the temple. And I know Jess has felt something different about me when I come out of the temple. And I think it's a difference he likes and wants to enjoy. I could be reading too much in... but I think not. Anyway... WHAT guy does that EVERY month!?!?!?!
Anyway... Leslie is right. Just too funny that she mentioned it today... to mirror my silent thought! ^_^
HIS Blog
Jess is just SO tickled with himself and his blog! He has SUCH fun with the linking. If you pop over there and click on the very first one for Tuesday, you won't find much, but he's going to fix it soon. I strongly encourage you to check out his links. By so doing you will have a good look into the WEIRD and eclectic sense of humor that is JESSIE'S BLOG!
If any of you are seeking a link to get you to a place that will help you find recipes for random ingredients... Jess HAS it! The last link on his post (Tuesday) is WAY cool. He was REALLY impressed with the wide array of recipes the site provides after inputting some pretty basic ingredients (like pot roast style ingredients).
MY OTHER Blog
And, thus far, thanks to my lovely and loyal visitors... I've now earned a marvelous $0.02 cents!!!! Can you hear me falling to the floor in fits of giggles!?? Yep, I did! Okay, I actually did NOT, but I wanted to! ^_^ I don't know how to get lots of people to check it out. I mean, technically I know how, but I don't know how to get people to give me "linky love." Did you KNOW there WAS such a term?? Well, there is. And basically it's one of the only ways to get ranked on Google... and the higher your rank the more easily others will find you... thus increasing traffic. *sigh* So much to figure out... and absolutely NO time to do it. MAN, it's going to take a VERY long while to get up to the minimum of $50 for a payout with that gig!!! ;)
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