I was recently told, in the form of a suggestion, that maybe I shouldn't put myself (and my business) out so openly because people will interpret what they will and read into what I share as they may. While I definitely realize this is true, when I encounter repeated instances of people misconstruing what I communicate, when I deal with people twisting my words and making something I said or wrote into something else entirely, well, I think 'that-there' is a good reason for frustration if ever there was one. I mean, I recently had someone lie directly to my husband (in real life conversation) about something this person said I put on Facebook. Thankfully my husband actually knew what I HAD written in this case. And, as a matter-of-fact, in this case the person speaking the lie was speaking a combination of something I had written, my husband had written, and their own interpolation*.
Anyway, this is not only a gripe fest about what other people say that I don't like. Actually, I'm done with that part. ;)
My main purpose in writing this itty bitty post is to simply let you know why I put myself out there. Why in the world do I share as much as I do (though I honestly DO keep a lot to myself)? Why do I speak candidly about much? Why I do I put myself out there?
Here it is:
I put myself out there because I have found that life can feel awefully lonely at times. But in the lonliest of times, I have consistenly been taken to places in this interesting and, dare I say, amazing world-wide-web, where I find someone whose story is a bit like mine. And I feel a kindred-spirit-ness... and for a few minutes... maybe a few days... I don't feel so alone.
Now, one might say, "You should turn to God to fill that hole." And I would say, "You are absolutely correct! And I strive to do just that. Yet there are moments (and days) when I feel a great urgency and desire to feel like I'm not the only one who ____... just for a little while."
I believe this feeling is not one that I alone feel. And because of my experiences with being guided or Led to certain items, sources of information, peoples' blogs when I needed what was contained therein, I believe firmly that what I feel a need to share may be used by our Awesome God to help someone else whose story is similar to mine and who desires a few moments of feeling like they aren't alone. Just like I do. Because, when it comes right down to it... no matter how different we are, we are ALL the same, too.
*interpolate (the definition I like best, though in this case the falsification was spoken):
#3. To change or falsify (a text) by introducing new or incorrect
material.